how to introduce your wife to sex toys
I’m sure all of you have heard about sex toys, but how do you introduce your wife to them? Here is my story…
It all started one day, when I brought home a vibrator. My wife looked a bit puzzled and hesitated. But then I explained the benefits of sex toys and how it would help her to get more out of our sex life. After a few moments of contemplation, she agreed to give it a try.
It took only a few seconds for her to get comfortable with the device and figure out how to use it. I was impressed by her willingness to try something new. We eventually found out which were the most pleasurable for her and spent the night exploring all possibilities.
Later I asked her what had made her change her opinion on the matter and she said it was because she trusted me and was sure that I would never put her in a compromising position. From her perspective, it was also an exciting and fun way to spice up our sex life.
I believe it wasn’t only the trust between us, sex toys but also the fact that she felt I would always respect her boundaries. I could show her how to use the toy, but it was ultimately up to her when it came to trying or using it.
The introduction of sex toys enabled us to explore our sexuality in a fun and exciting way. During the first few weeks it felt a bit strange but through time we got more comfortable and we had many nights of pleasurable experiences.
What I recommend to anyone wanting to bring sex toys to their bedroom is to do it in a gentle way. Make sure your partner is relaxed and comfortable talking about these new tools. Tell him/her about the benefits and try the item together. With the right attitude, it will be exciting and pleasurable for both of you.
My advice is to start with something simple, like a lube or a massage oil. This way you can make the transition easier and show your partner that there won’t be any pressure to try something new if it doesn’t feel comfortable.
Another thing I suggest is to check out sex toy stores together. There are many amazing stores nowadays and this will make it a lot easier to start exploring your options. Tell your partner that this is a chance to explore each other’s fantasies and needs and let them take the lead.
Eventually, you might want to explore different types of toys like vibrators, anal toys, floggers, and so on. Before you attempt any of these, make sure that you know how to use them properly and that you are prepared to give a good experience for both of you. A good way to start is to talk about fantasies and needs and take things slowly.
My wife and I spent many nights exploring our shared fantasies and desires. We bonded and opened up in ways I never thought possible. Before we got into sex toys, I thought they were intimidating but I was pleasantly surprised to find out they actually boosted our relationship and made sex more enjoyable!